November 3rd, 20 Weeks exactly, I was scheduled to find out the gender of our baby.
Chris has asked me many times if I had an incling of what the baby might me. This pregnancy has been so different then the others that I have never had an idea.
Chris and I went on Monday for our appointment and then he was to go home after our ultrasound so that he would be home when the kids got home but I had a dr. appt after my ultrasound.
I had been thinking for a while that it would be fun to have a little party to tell me friends what we were having. A gender reveal party. I finally decided that it wold just be a fun reason to have friends over to my house. So I decided that I would have a party on the Thursday afterwards. I didn't want the kids to spoil that party so I told them that we weren't going to tell them what we were having until Friday after the party.
However, Chris and I were talking and he mentioned that Matthew DID keep the secret that we were pregnant even when he REALLY wanted to tell people, but he DIDN'T!!
So to show him that we trust him with some secrets we decided to tell them when I got home from my Dr. appt on Monday but they could only tell people at school what we were having. It was a little bit harder for Matthew because he had Cub Scouts on Wednesday so he would see people from church.
I went and got balloons in the color of gender we were having. I was going to do this outside and let the balloons fly away but it was cold outside so we just did it in our house. I put the balloons in the box and let the kids open it.
Here are the couple pictures and the video of the kids finding out what the sibling is:
Matthew was SOOO adamant about NOT having a sister so before the ultrasound I really had to convince him that it would be ok either way if he had a sister or brother.
Here are what the kids said after they found out.
The kids did keep their secret, other then to people from school (obviously nobody from our ward goes to their school).
On Wednesday night when Matthew went to Cub Scouts, he went up to one of his den leaders and said, "I KNOW WHAT WE ARE HAVING!!!"
She said, "Stop! I don't want to know, I am going to the party."
He had to keep it quiet.
Thursday night I had my party. It was fun to just have some of my friends come and hang out and celebrate with me.
I have heard of cake reveals where you cut into a white frosted cake and then it is either blue or pink, but I am not a huge fan of cake so I didn't want that here.
I made up little pieces of paper that said IT'S A ??????????????, except one that had what it was so all of my friends got to pick one and then one special person was the person that got to spill the beans:)
It was fun to have friends here to celebrate with me and find out themselves what I was having.
So the friends that came to celebrate with me were:
Sharon Wright - I am her visiting teacher and it has been so great getting to know her. I would have never gotten to know her if it weren't for visiting teaching. She is so sweet and a wonderful friend. She actually came early to help me with finishing touches before it was suppose to start.
Jaynie Browder - She just moved into the ward about a year ago. I "interviewed" her for the spotlight that I was doing. She is really fun. She is in Young Women's right now but she is also one of my wonderful supervisors, that always gets her reports in without me having to ask!!!! :) She is also very talented. She made me about 8 burp clothes, super cute but ALSO there is padding inside them. This baby will be super cozy laying on it....as long as it is not wet:)
Jenny Ramsey - She is three weeks behind me. We have both had numerous miscarriages. Her last miscarriage though, she had to do a D&C...but they didn't actually get it out the FIRST time!! She had to go through that experience AGAIN!!!!
We are both very apprehensive about our pregnancies and rely on each other. She is also having a girl.
Candi Blaser - She is super fun, has a son Matthew's age and I absolutely LOVE being around her. She is so real AND she is the Bishop's wife. She was the first one to sit next to me when I moved here. I knew her before I knew who her husband was. When the Bishop introduced himself a week or two after moving here, I said, oh, you are Candi's husband:)
Annette Dalton - She is such a fun and intelligent lady. She is super sweet. She has a 10, 12, 14 & 16 year old. I laugh because our kids could just be added to the end of hers as far as ages go and it be perfectly in sync. She is the Young Women's president and her husband is the Priest Advisor. Chris really likes the Dalton family. He had a great time with Bary in Priests and Chris had to talk to Annette a lot when he was Young Men's president. They are a great family to be around. Annette took the kids and I to the beach for our first time two days after we moved here.
Monique Morrison - I think Monique is really cool but our paths hadn't really met before. She was in the Primary presidency when we first moved here but got released and was in youth Sunday School since then....until now. We are both in the Relief Society Presidency now. She is the 2nd counselor. I was really excited when I heard that because I want to get to know her more and one of the best ways to do that is to serve with her.
Miriam Burton - She is super sweet, kind and supportive. She is the Primary President and just has such a calm feeling around her. She never seems frazzled or upset, just go with the flow.
Janet Wu - I got to know Janet by being her visiting teacher. She is such a quiet lady. She moved here from NYC a couple years ago but she is originally from China. She doesn't talk a whole lot, just too herself. She shows up to so many things and supportive of so many things going on. It is funny because the kids are learning Chinese so they are able to say hi and bye to her and a few other things and I think she really enjoys it.
Dana Coons - Dana is another sister that I visit teach. Man, I get to know so many people through visiting teaching. She is so fun, but she is a private person. She doesn't let everybody know what is going on so I really have to ask questions and still trying to get to know her but not be pushy. She is crafty too. She knitted me a yellow baby hat for the baby.
Karen Eliason - She is such a great friend. She is my closest friend here. She just got released from RS 1st Counselor and it now Primary 2nd Counselor. I feel like I never get to see her much anymore since she is always in Primary and I am in Relief Society. She has had miscarriages before also and wants to have more kids so she and I would frequently have conversations about how we are doing with everything. Our kids have so much fun playing together. Karen is the one person that if I want to talk to someone I talk to her and if there is a Girls Night Out or lunch or any other get together we go together.
Carol Settle - She is such a life of the party. She has so much happiness energy. She always has something to say, but not in a bad way, she just is friends with everyone and has a story for SO many things. The way she tells her stories are the greatest. She makes everyone feel important and like she is their best friend. She is super fun to have around and to talk to. She is in Young Women's and those girls are so lucky to have her. She does so much for them. She has 3 boys and is so fun with them. Most often when I go to things she is there and just makes it a better event.
Denise Gregory - She has so laid back which is surprising because she is the mother of 7 kids. She doesn't seem to get frazzled, just going with what it next. She was an only child and her husband came from a family of 11 I believe, but she was the one that said, she wanted LOTS of kids. She LOVES babies and is so excited for me to have mine.
I think that was it, I hope I didn't miss anybody.
Jaynie Browder and Sharon Wright
Jenny Ramsey and Candi Blaser
(they got the memo to wear the color they think I am having)
Jenny has 5 boys and 1 girl so she just figures everyone is having a boy like she did....HOWEVER this this one that she is pregnant with, is a GIRL!!
I wish I had pictures of everybody but I got side tracked and put the camera down.
So the morning of the ultrasound, I told
Chris, I think it is a girl. The reason why I said that is because
Allison is our stubborn child. This baby will kick and kick until I want
someone else to feel it and then it will stop. So in my mind it is a
little bit stubborn so that is why I made my guess of a girl and
fortunately and unfortunately I was right.
For some reason I was kind of hoping of a girl, probably because it is so fun to shop for a girl:)